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Buffalo Painter, Boutique Town Rasta

Buffalo Painter, Boutique Town Rasta

Will your art suffer if no one worships you?

Heather Havrilesky
Jun 17, 2019
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Dear Molly,

Does having a boyfriend indeed make you a worse artist unless they worship you? I suspect that "worship," for all the fucked-up dynamics that word implies, may also describe my last two boyfriends' attitudes towards me, which left me feeling vaguely patronizing and disrespectful of them until I couldn't take it anymore. But they were so sweet…

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