Husband Broken. Get a Vibrator?

I prefer imaginary lovers and brand new appliances to my actual spouse.

Hi Molly,

I'm not quite sure what my question is, but I want someone to talk some sense into me.

I'm a queer lady in her late 30s. I've been married 12 years and my husband is great. We've had a lot of adventures together and gotten through some hard stuff. Some of that hard stuff is my husband's mental health. He's struggled with depression and anxiety s…