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Losers

See ya, wouldn't wanna be ya.

Heather Havrilesky
Nov 23, 2024
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Neighborly Advice (1947) by Leonora Carrington

Every now and then, I get comments on my advice column on social media, from people who say things should be easy, and if things get difficult, the problem is probably you. You need to look at yourself. You need to self-reflect. Ask yourself if you’re the problem. Ask yourself if things would be way easier i…

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