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Loss

Take the L.

Heather Havrilesky
Jun 13, 2020
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Eclipse of the Sunflower (1945) by Paul Nash

This loss feels like a victory. You’ll fixate on what’s missing, but all I can see is what’s left, a rare chance to exist without plans or expectations. What will take shape inside all of this time and space?

Solving puzzles around the clock is a way of sidestepping the hard work of mourning. Put down your ridd…

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