Should I Dump My Husband?

Unlike most husbands, he’s lazy and whiny and doesn’t love my family enough

Dear Molly, 

I've always been curious about what you'd think of my relationship with my husband. It's historically been kinda bad, kinda great, back and forth between certainty and ambivalence on my part. I'll try to keep this succinct:

He hates spending much time at all with my (very loving but not the easiest) family, and would prefer I didn't spend muc…