Last night I told my husband that I feel like a man these days because I exist in a constant state of need. It’s not emotional need, though, it’s like a hunger for life in general and for connection, specifically, but new connections, with people who are brilliant and worthy of my fucking time, which is scarce (I mean my time is scarce and the people wh…
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